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many times that parentheses
are also life.

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Defeat is part of life.

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Failure is part of life and defeat,

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failure,

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pain, they push you in

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the right direction.

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If they don't sink you,

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which they can also sink you,

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push you in the right direction.

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Qué pasa?

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That socially we are accustomed

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to boasting about

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the victories and hide the defeats.

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But defeats shape a personality.

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Defeats make you...

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They allow you an experience,

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of mud and fog, which also shape you.

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They also help you to be who
you are and to be a better

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person and allow you to understand
the world and people.

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In other words,

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I value defeat and failure.

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Not because I have experienced
or lived them,

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but because they allow you to know yourself better and
to know others better and to understand others better.

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Now we are talking a lot.

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It has become fashionable to
talk about mental illness.

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Mental illness is closely
linked to the universe of

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failure and defeat that
we do not want to face,

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of pain, of

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frustration,

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of fear.

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And those are there and if we are
able to experience them as part

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of the life process and if we
are able to learn from them,

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of our own condition
and how to deal with

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ourselves and how to treat others,

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we are making progress.

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But I believe that the
world is better because

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not everyone is always
happy and content.

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First, because that

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real world,

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because that world is not real,

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that world does not exist.

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And then because we will be
closer to understanding

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others and therefore
be better people.

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Because I believe it is vital to understand
others in order to be a better person.

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If we experience those situations
that we do not like and

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we are able to assume them
and even recognize them,

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that is, why not acknowledge

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defeat?

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Why not recognize that
you're screwed?

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Why not recognize that
you are depressed?

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Why not acknowledge that
you got this wrong?

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Why not recognize that you
can't even stand yourself?

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That you are in pain,

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that you suffer,

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that you are afraid,

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that you are going to a psychologist,

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pussy, until very recently,

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do you go to a psychologist?

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Hostia, you're going

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to the shrink!

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No Mire

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usted,

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you go to a traumatologist
when you break a bone,

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you go to a psychologist
when you break your soul.

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No